Spiritual Abuse Awareness Week: Concluding Thoughts

Day 3 : Why should those who haven’t been hurt care about this issue? What do you wish you could tell those who want to help but weren’t close enough to know or see your situation? What do you wish every pastor knew before starting ministry? What would make the church a safe space for … Continue reading Spiritual Abuse Awareness Week: Concluding Thoughts

SAAW guest post: Brian’s story

When Brian contacted me on Monday offering to guest post, I wasn't sure what to expect. But I was in for a treat and so are you. Brian's a good storyteller and doesn't have his own blog, so I'm delighted to be able to share his testimony of surviving spiritual abuse. We need more men … Continue reading SAAW guest post: Brian’s story

Paved with good intentions

SPIRITUAL ABUSE AWARENESS WEEK, DAY 1: My story I can’t find a way to make this a short post. I’ve been a little loath to answer this specific question since I started blogging. I prefer to tell vignettes and talk about the big picture of spiritual abuse in the church and use my story in … Continue reading Paved with good intentions

Spiritual Abuse Awareness Week: March 18-22

When someone is angry about bad things that happened to them in their church, their anger is not easily accepted by those who have only had positive experiences with Christianity. Before a survivor of spiritual abuse can tell his story, it has to be worked over, combed through, and made palatable for the intended audience. … Continue reading Spiritual Abuse Awareness Week: March 18-22