Love, fundamentalism, and endings

“Love and abuse cannot coexist.” - bell hooks. It’s been over a year since I first read bell hook’s masterful treatise on love, All About Love: New Visions.  The book called to and was answered by changes stirring in my heart, little epiphanies cracking the surface of my reality, and it was the catalyst for … Continue reading Love, fundamentalism, and endings

Welcome & TL;DR

UPDATE Everything crashed again, sorry, sorry, etc. We had a SNAFU with servers and switching and WordPress accounts and the fastest way to get this up and running again was to jump the gun on switching Wine & Marble to a domain of my own name, etc. It got complicated, Kiery King is a web … Continue reading Welcome & TL;DR

Runaway Husbands: a book review

Divorce is hard. This year has been hard. The hardest part isn't the logistics, the moving, the financial untangling, the stress, the aching, or the loneliness. It's the fact that I still disassociate my self from the fact that divorce is now part of my story. It wasn't supposed to go this way. I followed … Continue reading Runaway Husbands: a book review

IR: Good vs. best: things I wish I learned about dating

When one of my friends starts dating someone exclusively, I like to ask questions, to capture in my head not just the story of how he asked her out or how she warmed up to him, but to understand the essence, the thingness of what makes their new relationship attractive to them. What do you … Continue reading IR: Good vs. best: things I wish I learned about dating