Eve Ettinger

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  • Fighting back against spanking

    August 2, 2013
    Abuse, Family, Home Life, Relationships, Spiritual Abuse

    [Trigger warning: spanking, child abuse.] Someone found my blog recently by searching for “fought back against spanking” and that hit me hard. Whoever you are, I want to give you a hug. You’re not alone. The memories triggered by that phrase aren’t pleasant. In some ways, I realize I’m reliving the feelings of utter helplessness,…

  • Story Writing Workshop for Photographers

    July 23, 2013
    Announcements, Art, Learning, Writing

    With the divorce and moving out on my own [finally!], I’m trying to rebuild my savings and start teaching again. I love teaching, but put it aside during college to pursue English and editing. Now that I’m not constantly trying to fight for mental clarity through family drama or marital tension, I can do things…

  • When I haven’t been here…

    June 30, 2013
    Real Life, Thankful

    I’ve been busy elsewhere! I was really honored to have Rachel Held Evans ask me to guest post for her on SGM a couple months ago, and she was patient with me as I kept pushing it off to recover from crazy life stuff. I finally got her a draft, she pared it down from…

  • “I am not a feminist”

    June 27, 2013
    Feminism, Gender, Language, Learning, Men, Women

    Indulge me, for a moment or two? I’m going to be the cantankerous language nerd here for a bit. This post has been written many times before by people smarter than me. But I still hear [straight, white] people telling me that they like the stuff I write and talk about, but they’re not feminists…

  • Growing Pains

    June 25, 2013
    My story, Real Life

    I don’t know where to start. A few weeks ago, I was at dinner with a friend in DC, and tried to make a list of all the crazy things that have happened since …I guess since I last posted. It’s been dizzying, and not all good. I feel like I want to go hide…

  • Thank you

    June 6, 2013
    Art, Beauty, Christian Patriarchy, Community, Healing, Seeing Light, Thankful

    Jennifer wants to thank her well-wishers, so she made this for everyone.

  • Stunned

    May 31, 2013
    Christian Patriarchy, Church, Healing, Quiverfull, Real Life, Thankful

    Dear readers. You’ve been following Jennifer’s story, here and here. You’ve rallied with gifts and notes and advice on the best tools for this budding graphic concept artist. I thought we’d be doing really well if we raised $300 for her. Today the count totalled just over $10,000. Most of that was donations of $5-15–individuals…

  • Update on Jennifer

    May 28, 2013
    Advent, Christian Patriarchy, Healing, Quiverfull

    Update: We’ve hit $1,087! THANK YOU! I’ve sent the full amount to her sister, and they’re setting it aside for either a tablet or a laptop, once she knows what exactly she’ll need. Any additional gifts will be put in a separate fund for Jennifer’s college tuition in the fall. -h — Today something amazing…

  • Quiverfull/Christian Patriarchy rescue: Jennifer’s story

    May 28, 2013
    Abuse, Christian Patriarchy, Family, Legalism, Quiverfull

    Last Sunday night, I got a call from one of my post QF/CP buddies–we’re both the oldest from big homeschooling families with some unhealthy dynamics, and we both left that world when we got married (which torqued both of our fathers, for different, but similar reasons). She and I have been discussing with some of…

  • IR: Jori’s story

    May 6, 2013
    Abuse, Christian Patriarchy, Church, Feminism, Healing, Legalism, Sovereign Grace Ministries, Spiritual Abuse, Women

    I’m on a roll on post ideas, thanks to long conversations with Jori during my visit with her. She gave me permission to tell a story of hers here, for the benefit of anyone else who has perhaps been in a similar position. She says, “Maybe it’ll keep someone from having a similar experience, or…

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