Why it matters: picking the lock of Christian patriarchy

Yesterday the Feminisms Fest was all about why we're feminists. Today's question is: why does it matter? I read Emily Joy Allison's post this morning about how feminism matters to her because of her younger sisters, and chuckled, because she basically wrote my post for me. But there's a difference in our stories, and I'm … Continue reading Why it matters: picking the lock of Christian patriarchy

Be patient with yourself.

Coming out of a spiritually abusive situation is incredibly difficult. The first and biggest step ┬áis seeing the abuse for what it is and allowing yourself name it. Saying, "this isn't normal; this shouldn't be this way," is the watershed moment which allows you to begin see what's wrong and why. After my moment, I … Continue reading Be patient with yourself.

Immodesty Rail: An Introduction

I'd like to start a regular feature here about the concept of gender roles within the church, and how they affect us, why they affect us, and how they ought to affect us. I intend for this to be primarily a discussion, and I ask that you engage these posts by first laying down your … Continue reading Immodesty Rail: An Introduction