Privilege and talking about hardship

“I would be just devastated.” It’s a word I’m not allowed to use, I think. You hit a point where too many bad things have happened to you in too short a period of time, and you suddenly have no time to be devastated because you’re pretty busy working until 7pm for someone else’s startup … Continue reading Privilege and talking about hardship

IR: Agency

One of the things that has been a constant struggle for me, as a woman leaving the world of Christian patriarchy, has been reconciling reality to my learned "right" responses. I have to be gutsy and take charge of my life and heed my personality type and my needs and make sure I'm living in … Continue reading IR: Agency

Privilege, Dave Ramsey, and CONTEXT

I have a lot of mixed feelings about the Dave Ramsey-is-insensitive-and-privileged party. He wrote a ridiculous post about "habits" of rich people in which he showed that he is super out of touch with what it's like to be poor, and is a subscriber to prosperity gospel stuff, which is a lovely Gnostic sort of … Continue reading Privilege, Dave Ramsey, and CONTEXT

You’re doing it wrong, bro

Advance warning #1: Do read up on the concept of privilege a bit before reading this post if you're not already familiar with it. The short definition is, essentially: the power given to you because of your identity by various established cultural structures, or even more simply, the social place of power you don't know … Continue reading You’re doing it wrong, bro